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Mistress Cassandra


New York, New York


Mistress Cassandra...


      Elegant, Edgy, and Extreme.



Exploring your kinky side excites Me, and I delight in helping you discover and realize your naughtiest fantasies. I love to engage in power exchange, and I am an expert at the art of seduction. The tone of our session can range from playful and mischievous to cold and cruel.  My attitude can vary from nurturing to spoiled to severely bitchy, depending on what turns us both on. I believe that good communication between Myself and My sub is the foundation of a great session. Although I may not be willing to honor all of your requests, do not be afraid to tell Me about any/all of your interests or to ask any questions. Knowing what you think you want will help Me create a scene that is tailored to address your desires and give you the feeling that you are searching for. While I sometimes enjoy pushing limits, you will always be safe with Me, even in the most intense scenes. I honor safe words at my discretion, but you will likely be begging for more rather than asking me to stop. My goal is to provide the best experience possible for everyone involved. This is sometimes achieved by conducting activities that are new to you; so try to be as openminded as possible. While I will consider most fantasies, I expect to be treated with respect at all times.

     I session out of New York City's newest and most fully equipped play space, in an elite, private location. I am also available for travel worldwide. I possess an extensive fetish and fantasy wardrobe as well as an arsenal of BDSM equipment. I can also provide you with fetish clothing in your desired medium if you like to dress the part. If you have a very specific wardrobe request, let me know in advance. You can enjoy a wide range of BDSM activities with me, from light to extreme, including, but not limited to:



-Intricate Rope Bondage/Suspension

-Seductive tease and denial
-Verbal/ physical humiliation/ degradation
-Boot/ shoe/ leather/latex worship
-Restraint/ immobilisation/ mummification
-Role-play/ psychodrama
-Trampling/ ball-busting/ physical domination
-Spitting/slapping/ choking/ scratching
-Invasive medical  
-Domestic servitude training
-Public play
-Sensory deprivation
-Sessions with couples
-Smothering/ breath play
-Tickle torture
-Nurse fantasy
-Multiple Mistress scenes
-Corporal punishment/ torture (CBT,NT, etc.)
-Sissy slut training/ X-dressing/ transformation
-Multiple slave scenes
-Mean teacher/ naughty student
-Proper english discipline/ caning
-Infantilism/ age play/ regression
-Extended sessions/ nights on the town
-Caging/ abandonment  
-Superhero fantasy
-Sessions with a male Dom
-Food play/ sploshing
-Giantess fantasy
-Long-term slave training/ reprogramming
-Financial domination/ exploitation


Savvy, sophisticated, strong, smart and sexy, I have connections in many realms of the fetish scene. I enjoy the arts, fashion, fine dining, travel, and nightlife. For those who are looking for an experience which goes beyond the constraints of a basic, timed session, I offer a glimpse of NYC's kinky side. This could be difficult for an outsider to access without a seasoned guide and I am here to help. I provide a lucky few of my counterparts with a multi-sensory journey through New York's most exclusive and elite restaurants, kink/sex shops, S&M clothing boutiques, fetish parties and private play spaces/ dungeons. I can also facilitate introductions to many of the most sought after and experienced players in the BDSM scene. Whether you are from out of town, or a native who is looking to expand your horizons, I can show you a side of My city which is beyond your wildest and most kinky dreams.  

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